Kathy Collard Miller ~ Guest Author, Plus Monthy Book Give-Away

Kathy Collard Miller

Kathy Collard Miller is our guest today on Write Moments with God. She is a speaker and author with a passion to inspire women to trust God. Kathy has 49 published books including Women of the Bible: Smart Guide to the Bible (Thomas Nelson). She has spoken in 31 states and 7 foreign countries, and she blogs at www.KathyCollardMiller.blogspot.com. Kathy lives in Southern California with her husband of 44 years, Larry, and is the proud grandma of Raphael. Kathy and Larry often speak together at marriage events and retreats. 

Kathy is sharing an excerpt from her book, Partly Cloudy with Scattered Worries. It really touches my mother's heart. At the end of the post, I will tell you how you can win a copy of Kathy's book.

“Let Him Need Me”

by Kathy Collard Miller

Several years ago, when my son, Mark, was 14, I faced the challenge of releasing him to fly alone for the first time from California to Florida to attend a Christian golf camp. As I explained how he should find his connecting flight in Dallas, Mark brushed me off by saying, “I know, Mom, I’ll be okay.” I didn’t think he knew at all how to “read” the arrival/departure monitor. Dallas was a huge airport, often requiring a long walk to a distant gate—sometimes even transferring to another terminal on a train. “He’ll never find the correct gate,” I moaned to myself.

Several hours later, about the time Mark would arrive in Dallas, I felt tension seep into my neck muscles. I knew the phone would ring any moment with Mark telling me he had missed his connecting flight. How was I going to help him? I felt tense about him being alone and tense that I felt so helpless.

As I tried to keep busy doing housework, I suddenly sensed God whisper in my heart, “You're worried because you want him to fail.”

I couldn’t believe that was true. First of all, I wasn't worried, I was just concerned. And secondly, what kind of mother would want her child's failure?

But God persisted, “You are worried because you want to be needed. Let him need Me instead.”

I was shocked, but soon realized it was true. I wanted to be a part of his life—even in this situation. Mark needing me to help him would make me feel important and included.

That evening, the phone rang and it was Mark—in Florida. He had arrived safely. “Did you have trouble finding your connecting flight in Dallas?” I asked him nervously.

“No, Mom,” he replied matter-of-factly but with a touch of sarcasm in his voice. “It was directly across from the gate where I arrived.”

I fell silent. God had provided for him and I had unexpectedly learned the blessing of releasing my son to God’s loving care and calling worry worry!

BOOK SUMMARY:

It is possible to worry less through trusting God more. Regardless of the storms of trials, temptations, worry, uncertainty, confusion, or regrets that you're facing, you can trust God more. Partly Cloudy with Scattered Worries offers personal testimonies, practical illustrations, and solid biblical teaching for breaking anxiety and the devastating effects of worry. Each chapter includes Discussion Questions for individuals or groups, along with a “Letter from God.” In addition, a profile of a woman in the Bible who struggled with or experienced victory over worry is featured in each chapter to inspire every reader to see God's hand in her life.

Don't be afraid, little flock, for it is your Father's good pleasure to give you the Kingdom. Luke 12:32 NIV

            I hope Kathy's message has encouraged you.

Please leave a comment below with your email address and you will be included in the drawing for a copy of Partly Cloudy with Scattered Worries. The winner will be announced Monday, August 11th, here on the blog.  Blessings! I'm so glad you joined me today.

Return to Me and Close the Gap

Photo courtesy of Google image

As some of you may know, I’ve just taken a bit of a vacation from my normal routine.  But changing my normal routine caused me to change my daily devotional time, and it was sometimes haphazard.  As I embraced more carefree activities, I neglected to spend as much time in Bible study. I began to feel like I was neglecting God. I certainly didn’t intend to do that.

There is a powerful draw of the world, the flesh, and the devil (See 1 John 2:16) even when we vacation.

But God has made it so easy for us as His children to close the gap between ourselves and Him.

Thus declares the LORD of hosts: Return to me, says the LORD of hosts, and I will return to you.  Zechariah 1:3 b ESV

The apostle James tells us “Draw close to God, and He will draw close to you.” (James 4:8)

He will draw close.  He who is full of mercy and lovingkindness WILL draw close.

If we drift from God, He is happy to renew fellowship and a loving relationship with us.  He waits for our response to Him, and when we draw nearer to Him, He quickly closes that gap between us and Himself.

When we commit ourselves to pursue God, He will be found.  (See Jeremiah 29:14)

His presence can be powerfully real, and by the power of the Holy Spirit within us, we can have a vibrant fulfilling relationship with our God.

Jesus said “Come to me….and I will refresh you.” Matthew 11:28(Douay-Rheims)

I took this picture while on vacation in Quebec City in 2011. 

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Your Strength is to "Sit Still" in Quietness and Confidence in GOD

A quiet shady place to sit still in my own backyard

Their strength is to sit still. Isaiah 30:7

I understand how not “sitting still” can wear a body out, as well as keep you from hearing from the Lord. My sister used to say to me, almost every time she came over, “Sit down! Can’t you ever be still?” I blamed my constant doing on the fact that I have six children. Well, most of the children have grown up and gone, and I still find myself too busy to be still.

When my Scripture reading led me to the words of Isaiah 30:7 last week, I sat quietly a few minutes to let them sink into my soul…and I listened.

Their strength is to sit still. (v.7)

For thus saith the Lord God, the Holy One of Israel; In returning and rest shall ye be saved; in quietness and in confidence shall be your strength: and ye would not. Isaiah 30:15

But, I’m in the process of doing my thing, ticking off the tasks on my to-do list, accomplishing some goal?  So what!  All of my striving can never take the place of God’s leading and His strength. I don’t want to be as obstinate as the rebellious children of Israel. 

Rest in the Lord and wait patiently for Him. Psalm 37:7

God can accomplish His will in my life if I wait patiently on Him. 

Our strength comes when we humble ourselves enough to sit still in dependence upon God and in submission to His Holy will, which is far better and above anything we could imagine. 

I’d like to share a quote from one of my favorite devotionals.  This is from Oswald Chamber’s My Utmost for His Highest:

“It sounds so easy to talk about ‘resting in the Lord’ and ‘waiting patiently for Him’ until the nest is upset—until we live, as so many are doing in tumult and anguish; is it possible then to rest in the Lord? … Resting in the Lord does not depend on external circumstances at all, but on your relationship to God Himself.”

So with my calendar full of visitors and day trips, birthdays and celebrations, I’ve decided to take a little vacation from the blog. I hope to “sit still” before God often and return to you refreshed and inspired with a new meditation on July 28^th.

The Church of the Most Holy Trinity ~ Augusta, GA

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Eileen DeCamp  will be receiving a signed copy of God,Me, and Sweet Iced Tea: Experiencing God in the Midst of Everyday Moments. 

My sincere thanks to all of you who visited and commented on the blog last week. Your kind words and encouragement mean more to me than you will ever know.  Be blessed.

Strangers in a Strange Land ~ Plus Win a Signed Copy of God, Me, and Sweet Iced Tea

"Bonjour" welcome sign picture courtesy of Jeanne Henriques ~ Collage of Life

Today we're looking forward to the arrival of our French guest.  My daughter and her family are in China; my son is in Japan.  Many of you are planning your own summer travels. With that on my mind, I decided to share a chapter from devotional, God, Me, and Sweet Iced Tea: Experiencing God in the Midst of Everyday Moments.  I'm also giving away a signed paperback copy.  I hope you'll enjoy this.

Strangers in a Strange Land

“If you call ‘Father’ the one who judges everyone impartially according to what they have done, you must live in reverent fear as long as you are strangers in a strange land” 1 Peter 1:17 (ISV).

I love being a citizen of the United States of America—a nation of immigrants from all over the world.   So it was with much enthusiasm that I taught English to speakers of other languages.  In addition to language, I also taught our culture and history, and endeavored to impart to my students an appreciation for the American way of life.  Assimilation and acculturation are objectives for newcomers in order to help them overcome the feelings of alienation in a foreign land.  When immigrants begin to melt into the life and culture of American, they begin to feel they belong here.

While reading the above scripture in 1 Peter, I began to realize that we as Christians must do just the opposite of those students.  Rather than assimilate the ways of our world, it is our calling, and our challenge, to live in this world, yet keep ourselves “unspotted from the world” (James 1:27).  We are strangers in a strange land.

 On this journey of faith, we are called to holy living. As we live a sanctified life, we come to realize that all this world has to offer is vanity, and that only God can give us the true desires of our hearts.  Peter beseeches us as “strangers and pilgrims” to live in reverential fear of God the Father.  We must live according to His Holy Word, not being conformed to the customs and ways of this world. 

The Psalmist said “I am a stranger in the earth: hide not thy commandments from me” (Psalm 119:19).  As we walk with Him in faith, on our way to heaven, we desire more and more to understand God’s commandments and serve Him.  With our sights on Him, this world is indeed passing away, and our heavenly destination is becoming more the reality.

Suggested readings:  Psalm 39:12; Psalm 119:19; Psalm 119:54; Hebrews 11:13; James 1:27; 1 Peter 1:17; 1 Peter 2:11.

Journal Considerations:  Are there some “ways of the world” that you are trying not to assimilate?

Why do you think Peter calls us strangers and pilgrims?

Prayer:  Dear Father God, have mercy on me.  Thank you for your grace that sustains me on this journey.  I pray that You might count me in your household of faith.  Thank you for Your Son Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit.  In Jesus’ Holy Name, I pray. Amen.

Today’s Sweet Tea Moment: May I pass the time of this pilgrimage honoring God.

Prayer Focus: Missionaries serving God in foreign lands.

Photo courtesy of Eileen DeCamp

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More Than a Mantra ~ All Praise to You Lord God

Ludwig Bemelman's Madeline ~ photo courtesy of Google

My girls and I were big fans of Madeline  , the precocious and charmingly impetuous star of Ludwig Bemelman’s books.  Madeline isn’t afraid of anything and in the movie version her mantra is

“I can do anything.”

(Click on the caption above to watch one of our favorite Madeline stories.)

Her mantra has always reminded me of the following scripture verse:

I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Philippians 4:13

The truth of Philippians 4:13 is more than a mantra, more than a “positive declaration”.

It is true that some of us see ourselves so highly that the attitude “I can do anything” lurks just beneath the surface. Most of us are guilty to some extent in some areas of an attitude of superiority. But then again, there is the other extreme.  “I can’t do anything.”  “I can’t get anything right.” Divorce, illnesses, financial difficulties—lots of situations can chip away at self-confidence.

The truth of the matter is wellness resides in the truth of who I am in Christ Jesus.

Based on God’s truth, based on who I am in Him, I can be secure in His promise, that I can do anything that’s in His will for me to do… if I cooperate with Him.

Consider Peter who walked on the water to Jesus.

Peter said to Him, “Lord, if it is You, command me to come to You on the

water.” And He (Jesus) said, “Come!” And Peter got out of the boat, and

walked on the water and came toward Jesus. Matthew 14:28-29

When Peter kept his eyes on Jesus, he walked on the water.  It was when he looked at the conditions around him that he became afraid and began to sink. I like the fact that those on the boat worshipped Jesus after they saw what had happened.  They didn’t run to Peter to applaud him for his great feat.

We need to praise God for all our talents and gifts and consecrate them to the service of Him who gave them.

I love King David’s words after his successful fund-raiser for building the great Temple. Was David all puffed up with pride by his success?  Not at all.  Here is his prayer:

So David blessed the LORD in the sight of all the assembly; and David said,

“Blessed are You, O LORD God of Israel our father, forever and ever.

“Yours, O LORD, is the greatness and the power and the glory and the

victory and the majesty, indeed everything that is in the heavens and the

earth; Yours is the dominion, O LORD, and You exalt Yourself as head over

all. “Both riches and honor come from You, and You rule over all, and in

Your hand is power and might; and it lies in Your hand to make great and

to strengthen everyone. “Now therefore, our God, we thank You, and

praise Your glorious name. 1 Chronicles 29:10-13

Can I get an “Amen ”?

This beautiful photo of Virginia Beach is courtesy of Eileen DeCamp

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A Question which Demanded An Answer

Photo courtesy of Jeanne Henriques ~ Collage of Life

While cleaning out an old purse, I found a business card on which I’d written the following question: 

Is anything standing between you and God?

I paused and studied the card in an attempt to remember the occasion that prompted my writing it. I couldn't remember writing it, but clearly the question had been written by my hand. 

Nothing came to mind. 

And yet, still, there it was, speaking to me, daring to be answered.

NOTHING should stand between me and God.  My God should receive ALL my love and undivided devotion.

The commandment states:

And you shall love the Lord thy God with all your heart, and with all your

soul, and with all your might. Deut. 6:5

Contrary to this, we are instructed:

Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world… 1 John 2:15a

for all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, the

pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world. (v. 16)

That list  constitutes the things of the world—those self-indulgent things that characterize self-centered living that heartens to the flesh…enmity between  me and God.  

Therein lies the answer.

And the world passes away, and the lust thereof; but he that does the will of God abideth for ever. (v. 17)

Jesus came to do the will of His Father. (John 5:30) We could say that it was the theme which dominated His life.  He sought not His own will, but the will of His Father. 

Doing the will of God should be the theme that dominates our lives.

To me, it’s easy to embrace the fact that I should love God whole-heartedly, above all else.

But what about His will?  Do I embrace God’s will as wholeheartedly as His love?  His will for the minute details of my life? 

God's will concerns our minds, emotions, and our own self will.  Is that the catch? Do we hold back a bit from God due to our own self-will … due to love of the world?

These are questions I ask myself.  Then I thank God for His love and mercy towards me, a sinner.

Photo courtesy of Eileen DeCamp

Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus…

For it is God which works in you both to will and to do of his good

pleasure. Philippians 2:5,13

Thank you for visiting Write Moments with God.  Have a beautiful day... in His will, in His love.  Are they not one and the same?

Free, Astonishing Love ~ A Blessing for Your Day

Another sunrise beautifully captured by Eileen DeCamp at Seabrook Island, S.C.

The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ and the love of God and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you all.  2 Corinthians 13:14

Paul spoke this benediction to the believers at Corinth and his inspired words still bless those of us who believe today.  I’ve been meditating on the words he chose—grace, love, fellowship—to grasp his meaning and their power.

“The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ…”

For by His grace, we are saved.  His grace.  His undeserved favor.  Paul wanted believers to take full advantage of all the benefits that Christ purchased by His blood on the cross.  He asked the believers in Corinth,

Do you not realize that Jesus Christ is in you? 2 Corinthians 13:5b

As Christ now lives by the power of God, so must we live by that power.  His grace is sufficient.

“And the fellowship of the Holy Spirit…”

Fellowship is friendship and companionship.  How wonderful that our Lord Jesus Christ did not abandon us when His time on earth was fulfilled.  He promised

I will not leave you comfortless. John14:18

And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Counselor, to be with you for ever, even the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive…for he dwells with you, and will be in you. John14:16, 17a

What a blessing we have received—the indwelling Holy Spirit of God.

“And the love of God…”

I’ve saved the best for last.  God IS love. (1 John 4:8) May the love of God be with you.

Here is a quote from Matthew Henry’s Concise Commentary of the Whole Bible:

None of our words or thoughts can do justice to the free, astonishing love of a holy God towards sinners, who could not profit or harm him, whom he might justly crush in a moment, and whose deserving of his vengeance was shown in the method by which they were saved, though he could by his almighty Word have created other worlds, with more perfect  beings, if he had seen fit. Search we the whole universe for love in its most glorious displays?  It is to be found in the person and the cross of Christ.

For those of us who call Jesus Lord, the kingdom of God reigns in our hearts.  What more could we ever want or need?  

So I leave you with Paul’s blessing today and another awesome picture by my friend Eileen DeCamp.  Be blessed.

Sunset at Seabrook Island, SC ~ courtesy of Eileen DeCamp

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Congratulations to Jennifer Brommet.  I hope you'll enjoy it Jennifer and thanks so much for participating.