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Kathy Collard Miller
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Kathy Collard Miller is our guest today on
Write Moments with God. She is a
speaker and author with a passion to inspire women to trust God. Kathy has 49 published books including
Women of the Bible: Smart Guide to the Bible (Thomas Nelson). She has spoken in 31 states and 7 foreign countries, and she
blogs at
www.KathyCollardMiller.blogspot.com. Kathy lives in Southern
California with her husband of 44 years, Larry, and is the proud grandma of
Raphael.
Kathy and Larry often speak together at
marriage events and retreats.
Kathy is sharing an excerpt from her book, Partly Cloudy with Scattered Worries. It really touches my mother's heart. At the end of the post, I will tell you how you can win a copy of Kathy's book.
“Let
Him Need Me”
by Kathy Collard
Miller
Several years ago, when my son,
Mark, was 14, I faced the challenge of releasing him to fly alone for the first
time from California to Florida to attend a Christian golf camp. As I explained
how he should find his connecting flight in Dallas, Mark brushed me off by
saying, “I know, Mom, I’ll be okay.” I didn’t think he knew at all how to
“read” the arrival/departure monitor. Dallas was a huge airport, often
requiring a long walk to a distant gate—sometimes even transferring to another
terminal on a train. “He’ll never find the correct gate,” I moaned to myself.
Several hours later, about the time
Mark would arrive in Dallas, I felt tension seep into my neck muscles. I knew
the phone would ring any moment with Mark telling me he had missed his
connecting flight. How was I going to help him? I felt tense about him being
alone and tense that I felt so helpless.
As I tried to keep busy doing
housework, I suddenly sensed God whisper in my heart, “You're worried because you
want him to fail.”
I couldn’t believe that was true.
First of all, I wasn't worried, I was just concerned. And secondly, what kind
of mother would want her child's failure?
But God persisted, “You are worried
because you want to be needed. Let him need Me instead.”
I was shocked, but soon realized it
was true. I wanted to be a part of his life—even in this situation. Mark
needing me to help him would make me feel important and included.
That evening, the phone rang and it
was Mark—in Florida. He had arrived safely. “Did you have trouble finding your
connecting flight in Dallas?” I asked him nervously.
“No, Mom,” he replied
matter-of-factly but with a touch of sarcasm in his voice. “It was directly
across from the gate where I arrived.”
I fell silent. God had provided for
him and I had unexpectedly learned the blessing of releasing my son to God’s
loving care and calling worry worry!
BOOK SUMMARY:
It is possible to worry less through trusting
God more. Regardless of the storms of trials, temptations, worry, uncertainty,
confusion, or regrets that you're facing, you can trust God more.
Partly Cloudy with Scattered Worries offers personal testimonies, practical
illustrations, and solid biblical teaching for breaking anxiety and the
devastating effects of worry. Each chapter includes Discussion Questions for
individuals or groups, along with a “Letter from God.” In addition, a profile
of a woman in the Bible who struggled with or experienced victory over worry is
featured in each chapter to inspire every reader to see God's hand in her life.
Don't be afraid, little flock, for it is your Father's good pleasure to give you the Kingdom. Luke 12:32 NIV
I hope Kathy's message has encouraged you.
Please leave a comment below with your email address and you will be included in the drawing for a copy of Partly Cloudy with Scattered Worries. The winner will be announced Monday, August 11th, here on the blog. Blessings! I'm so glad you joined me today.