Alice Wisler, featured author, plus monthly book give-away

Alice J. Wisler's new devotional and a picture of her son Daniel
 

It's my pleasure to introduce Alice Wisler as our guest author today.  Alice Wisler has written a devotional for those who need comfort in heartache. Having lost her son Daniel to cancer, Alice has the sensitivity and empathy to speak right to the heart of those who hurt. This devotional is relevant and encouraging, and leaves the reader with the confident hope that God will sustain them and help them face each new day.  It's for anyone struggling with heartache from any kind of loss--of a loved one, a career, health or finances, hopes and dreams, divorce.  As I read this lovely book, I thought of friends with whom I want to share it. So I invited her to be our guest today.  I hope you enjoy the interview which follows.

You have had a heartbreaking experience with grief; could you talk a little bit about that?

My son Daniel died after cancer treatments in 1997.  He was three when he was diagnosed with a malignant tumor in his neck.  He was four when he died in my arms after a staph infection entered his compromised body. The day was Groundhog Day, so every year when the little rascal is looking for his shadow to predict the onset of spring, I am remembering my little rascal—a beautiful blond-haired boy who loved his mama and had a great sense of humor.

 

What is one of the greatest hurdles when it comes to dealing with grief?

I think we are surprised at how long grief takes (how long the journey through it is) and what an impact grief has on each aspect of our lives. The loss of Daniel challenged my faith, my beliefs—my very core.

 

How does service to others help overcome grief?

Doing for others means getting out of yourself, so to speak, and letting others enter your life.  You begin to see that others have sorrow, too.  Others are hurt and need understanding.   By helping to meet the needs of others, you help yourself (a remarkable truth from God’s economy).

What is the main takeaway of you new devotional, Getting Out of Bed in the Morning?

Life is tough and grief is real.  Being human isn’t easy.  God provides for us as we walk through the valley of the shadow of death, sustaining us so that we can carry on.  He is full of compassion, love, forgiveness, mercy and grace.

You have a lot of writing exercises in your book.  How important is writing through heartache?

If you ask me, it is vital.  Writing saved me.  When Daniel died, I needed to pour my pain onto paper and have my journal share in holding it.  I wrote all the time. Now I teach online writing courses (Writing the Heartache) and speak at conferences on the value and benefits of putting pen to paper. Writing is inexpensive therapy, a great gift from God. I hope you’ll visit my website to learn more about my workshops.

Besides this devotional, what else have you written?

I have written five novels and two self-published cookbooks in memory of kids. 

Rain Song (Christy Finalist)

 How Sweet It Is (Christy Finalist)

 Hatteras Girl

A Wedding Invitation

Still Life in Shadows

All my novels take place in the South.  Even though I was born and raised in Japan, now that I live in North Carolina, I have learned the beauty of sweet tea and grits.

How does your family handle having a mom and wife who is behind her laptop most of the day?

My three kids are used to seeing me spend the majority of my time writing or heading out the door to speak.  My oldest, Rachel, who is now 22, drew a picture of me years ago when Elizabeth, my youngest (now 15), was a baby.  The drawing had Elizabeth in the baby seat/carrier on the carpet and me at my computer with my foot rocking the carrier.  My hands, of course, were on the keyboard, eyes glued to the screen.  My husband Carl likes me to quit work each day by 5 pm and spend time with him so I honor that request.

Read more about Alice at http://www.alicewisler.com

I waited patiently for the LORD; he turned to me and heard my cry. Psalm 40:1

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May God be with you.

Why Did the Apostle Paul Give Us a List of 8 Things to Think About

Granddaughter Mya reading Who Is God? by Kathleen Ruckman

 

 You will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on you Isaiah 26:3a (NKJV).

I visited the home improvement store last week. I enjoyed the background music as I browsed the aisles. The cashier was listening, too, because as I checked out, she actually started singing the lyrics of the catchy tune that filled the airwaves.

Maybe that's when it got stuck in my head. I first noticed it as I waited at the traffic light. I was singing it in my mind. By the time I got to the grocery store, I was belting it outloud. It wasn't even a song I liked. That wasn't the end of it. It happened the next day, and the next. When I started writing this, it happened again.

Do you know what I mean? Haven't we all had songs stuck in our heads. We hear it on the radio in the car, or in church, or in the home improvement store, and at the most unexpected time, it plays over and over like a broken record. Unfortunately, negative thoughts, self-doubts, painful memories, and worry can get stuck in our heads as well. And like that song I was singing even though I didn't like it, those negative thoughts can play over and over again in our minds causing us to lose our peace.

For our mental and spiritual health, it's important that we control those negative thoughts. The apostle Paul has given us a simple list.

"Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things...and the God of peace shall be with you" Philippians 4:8-9 (KJV).

Could he have been any more direct? Paul said "think on these things". I like the promise he gives. The God of peace shall be with you.


Do you have a favorite Scripture that helps you overcome negative thinking?

Melanie's rescued kittens in a box

 

Jesus said, "Peace I leave with you, my peace I give to you," John 14:27a.

Those of you who read Write Moments with God regularly will remember this is a devotion I wrote last summer.  It's been a favorite with readers. Feel free to leave your comments below.  I'd like to hear from you.  Be sure to visit this upcoming Monday when I will have the featured author of the month and book give away.

May His peace be with you.



What Does the Lord Require of Us?

Beautiful blue doors by Jeanne Henriques --  Collage of Life

“He has shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the Lord require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God” Micah 6:8 (KJV)?

 

           My angry teenager yelled at me as she stormed into her room. “You would be happy
 
if I stayed in my room all the time and had no friends at all!” 

          That was definitely not what I wanted from her or for her. (Parenting teenagers is a

most challenging profession, but that's another story.)

Her accusation reminded me of the children of Israel’s to Micah.  They wanted to know if the Lord would be pleased with sacrifices of thousands of rams, rivers of oil, and their first born children. (See Micah 6)  Of course that was not what God wanted.  Micah stated that God had shown them what was good.

God brought the children of Israel out of slavery in Egypt, parting the Red Sea for their safe passage, and took care of them in the barren desert.  You would think they would have always remembered these mighty acts and His gracious acts of mercy.  Such was not the case.  God called for the mountains to be His witnesses against the people of Israel, and asked the people to testify to explain their disobedience to Him.  Had they forgotten all He had done for them?

We might ask ourselves the same question.  Have we forgotten all that He has done for us?

Sometimes I think we make serving God more mysterious and difficult than it actually is.  God doesn’t want extravagant sacrifices.  He wants obedience.  In my opinion, obedience greatly simplifies our lives.  He wants us to do justly (do the right thing), to love mercy (be kind), and to walk humbly with Him (aware that He is our God).  God does not ask for impossible sacrifices. Obedience is doable. 
And He never asks us to do anything that He hasn't equipped us to do. (See Timothy 3:16-17)

 

Do you think God's children today are sometimes as obstinate and histrionic as teenagers can be?

Delightful photo by Eileen DeCamp

Jesus said, “My yoke is easy, and my burden is light” (Mt.11:30).

Help us LORD to do all you require of us and give us opportunities to testify of the wonderful things you have done.

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Will You Accept Your Portion of Inheritance from the Lord?

One of my coffee cups
 

The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want. . . my cup runneth over.  Psalm 23: 1, 5a

The 23^rd Psalm is one of my favorite passages of Scripture for comfort and encouragement. I
read it in its entirety almost every day.  My cup runneth over makes me think of blessings
running over in abundance. 

Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life; and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever. Psalm 23:6 

I love the affirmation expressed by these words of confident hope.

This week, the word cup captured my attention and spurred me on a search. I'll share some of my questions with you.

What exactly is our cup?

I learned in the Psalms that the cup can be one of wrath and suffering, and then again one of salvation.  (See Psalm 116:13)  And it comes from the hand of the Lord.

In the hand of the Lord there is a cup . . . Psalm 75:8

Jeremiah 16:7 talks about a cup of consolation.

Is our cup then, our portion that we need from the Lord for a particular time?

As Jesus prayed in the garden of Gethsemane, he said . . .

O my Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me:  nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt. Matthew 26:39.

Jesus was exceedingly sorrowful, and praying on His face.  So that cup was a cup of suffering. He knew what he had to do, and He accepted it as the will of God.

When the band of officers came to get Jesus in the garden of Gethsemane, Simon Peter drew his sword and slashed off the high priest’s servant’s ear. (See John 18:10-11).  Consider the words of our Lord to Peter.

Put up thy sword into the sheath:  the cup which my Father hath given me, shall I not drink it?

The cup then I perceive comes from the hands of God the Father, and it is His will.

Jesus said Shall I not drink it?  

Then who am I to question the portion that is given to me?

Whatever comes to us from His hand is our portion.  Be it salvation, abundant blessings, consolations, or suffering, it is His will for us at that moment in time.

And there is yet another cup I read of in the Scriptures—the cup of the new covenant.

We have Jesus’ words at the Last Supper.

In the same way, after supper he took the cup, saying, “This is the new covenant in my blood; do this, whenever you drink it, in remembrance of me.”  For wherever you eat this bread and drink this cup, you proclaim the Lord’s death until he comes.  1 Corinthians 11: 26-27

He offers us the new covenant in His blood.

Will we accept the cup from His hand?

Jesus trusted God the Father and took the cup.  Will we not do the same?  Accept our portion that comes from the hand of God?  Knowing that He satisfies the deepest needs of our soul.

The Lord is the portion of my inheritance and of my cup. . .  Psalm 16:5a

Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life; and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever. Psalm 23:6 
 

Thank you so much for visiting Write Moments with God today.  Might you consider leaving a comment?  I'd love to read what you have to say.  God's peace be with you. 

 Beautiful picture by Eileen DeCamp

How Worry Stopped the Clock and Inhibits Our Steps

Daddy's eighty-plus-year old clock made by William L.Gilbert in Winsted, Conn

Does He not see my ways, and count my every step? Job 31:4

The Lord counts our steps.  Job also said that God numbers our steps.  (See Job 14:16) 

The steps of a good man are ordered by the LORD: and he delights in his way.  Though he fall, he shall not be utterly cast down: for the LORD upholds him with his hand.  Psalm 37: 23-24

These Scriptures are encouraging, especially when things may not be going the way we’d like them to.  Trust the Lord; believe His promises.  God will guide our steps when we commit our way to Him. (See  Psalm 37)

It is so easy to worry, especially when the task seems daunting, or the way seems long and difficult.  We tend to look at circumstances and project into the future.  Worrying about what’s up ahead, what might happen tomorrow, does not make our way easier.  It inhibits our steps.

What I’d rather do is trust in God’s grace and know that He will give me the strength I need to take one step at a time. 

I’d like to share a story of the little clock that stopped ticking when it was told how many times he’d have to tick in a year. . . a lifetime.
 

“How many ticks do you have to tick at a time?” the wise old clock asked.

“Why, only one, I guess,” the new clock answered.

“There now.  That’s not so hard, is it?  Try it along with me.  Tick, tock, tick, tock.  See how easy it is?  Just one tick at a time.”

A light of understanding formed on the face of the clock, and he said, “I believe I can do it.  Here I go.”  He began ticking again.

“One more thing,” the wise old clock said. “Don’t ever think about the next tick until you have your last tick ticked.”

I understand that was seventy-five years ago, and the clock is still ticking perfectly, one tick at a time.

No man sinks under the burden of the day.  It is only when yesterday’s guilt is added to tomorrow’s anxiety that our legs buckle and our backs break.  It is delightfully easy to live one day at a time! ~ Corrie ten Boom
 

This is an excerpt from Don’t Wrestle, Just Nestle by Corrie ten Boom. She’s no longer with us, but her testimony lives on. If you don’t know her valiant story and her writing, you really must read some of her life-changing books.

 

 

I copied that little story in a notebook over 30 years ago. I hope you will find encouragement from it as I have.

Trust God's grace and know He's right there with you every step of the way. 

 

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And for those of you who love old clocks, my Daddy's clock still keeps perfect time, and it's been ticking a very long time. . .one tick at a time.  God bless you.

 

 

Is There Any Way We Can Know God?

Watching the kids on the playground--Quebec City Canada--June 2011



When my twins, Justin and Jonathan, were little boys, we had an ant farm.  It was fun to watch the tiny industrious creatures forever busy running their lives.  (Yes, my boys were that, but here I am referring to the ants.) These social creatures cooperated with one another building tunnels and chambers oblivious to our watchful eyes.  In their own universe (with no way to comprehend their marvelous masters) they lived their busy lives until they died too quickly, and the whole ant farm sat strangely still.  Our perspective gave us a good understanding of them, but there was no way they could fathom us.   

Do you not know?

Have you not heard?

Has it not been told you from the beginning?

Have you not understood since the earth was founded?

He sits enthroned above the circle of the earth,

and its people are like grasshoppers. Isaiah 40:21-22 

Like grasshoppers! Isaiah said. That perspective mirrors our own with the ants.

The truth is God is far above and beyond our comprehension. He knows us, His creations. We may try in our finite minds to conceive of Him, but in reality we have no basis of comparison.  God is marvelous and majestic.

 

Is there any way we can know Him?  God made a way for us when He sent us His son Jesus Christ.

 

Who, being in very nature God,

did not consider equality with God something to be grasped,

but made himself nothing,

taking the very nature of a servant,

being made in human likeness.

And being found in appearance as a man,

he humbled himself and became obedient to death—

even death on a cross!  Philippians2:6-8

 

Our gracious heavenly Father sent His son Jesus, the Word of God made flesh, to live amongst us as a man, to understand us, to be our brother, our advocate, our Savior, that we might know Him and by so doing, know the Father as well.

 

Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. If you really knew me, you would know my Father as well. From now on, you do know him and have seen him.” John 14:6-7

 

 

Thank God for Jesus Christ. He makes a way for us to know God and to see God.  Thank God for my Savoir.  Otherwise, I might have lived and died as clueless as a grasshopper. . . or even as an ant.

 

Today I hope you will take the time to consider what a great big God we have, and what a wonderfully gracious thing He did by sending us His Son. God bless you. Thank you for visiting Write Moments with God. 

 

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Thanks to Marisel Jarrin Kleppen who shared the picture of her husband and son



And you shall seek me, and find me, when you shall search for me with all your heart.  Jeremiah 29:13

Without communication relationships die. I can’t remember where I first read those words, but to me they ring true.  In fact, I said them this week to a friend about her long distance relationship.  Telephone commercials remind us of the importance of staying in touch with our loved ones far away.  

Without communication relationships die. I’ve said this to myself recently and resolved to communicate more frequently with friends by cards and letters—hand written and mailed.  Communication is necessary for healthy relationships.

We know this certainly applies to human relationships, but what about our relationship with God?

We are God’s children, adopted into the family of God.  We call the Lord Almighty, our Father. Our relationship with God is the ultimate relationship.

And I will be a Father to you, and you will be my sons and daughters, said the Lord Almighty.  2 Corinthians 6:18 For you are all the children of God by faith in Christ Jesus.  Galatians 3:26 Because you are sons, God sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, the Spirit who calls out, "Abba, Father". Galatians 4:6 And Jesus calls us His brethren.  (See Matthew 12:48-50)

We have a personal relationship with God through faith in the Lord Jesus Christ. But how do we communicate with God? How do we keep the lines of communication open?

We go to Him in prayer.

In Him and through faith in Him we may approach God with freedom and confidence.  Ephesians 3:12 Let us therefore draw near with boldness unto the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy, and may find grace to help us in time of need. Hebrews 4:16

Prayer is key to our spiritual relationship. Just as with any other intimate relationship, you need quality time together in order to nurture and grow that relationship.  Through prayer I draw close to God and He draws close to me.  Through prayer my soul communes with God. 

We can pray anywhere, about anything, at any time.  There is nowhere that we, as children of God, can be that God will not hear us.  We can commune with Him in our hearts or speak out loud. 

Are you taking advantage of this amazing privilege? Do you want a closer relationship with God?  Pray.

And he (Jesus) withdrew himself into the wilderness, and prayed.  Luke 5:16

 Photo courtesy of Marissa Nicole Photography

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And now, to announce the winner of last week's book give-away.  Congratulations to Deborah McCarragher who will be receiving one of Jennifer Rothschild's wonderful books.  I know you will be blessed Deborah. 

Thanks to all of you who visited the blog and left comments.  It was a pleasure to read all the wonderful things you had to say about Jennifer Rothschild and how her writing has blessed you. It was very encouraging to me and I know it was to Jennifer as well. 

Thank you so much Jennifer for allowing us to get to know you here at Write Moments with God.  May God continue to bless every word that you write for His glory.