Helping Hurting Hearts

My Daddy's Bible

Heaviness in the heart of man maketh it stoop: but a good word maketh it glad. Proverbs 12:25 KJV 

Anxiety weighs down the heart, but a kind word cheers it up. Proverbs 12:25 NIV 

Throughout the Proverbs, Solomon has much to say about the power of words to bring comfort. He likens them to silver, refreshing water, food, medicine, and a tree of life. Good words bring good to others and lift the hearts of those weighed down with depression or worry. 

I am reminded of the inscription written in the front of my daddy’s little black bible. It reads as follows:

    People need from us nothing so much as good cheer and encouragement. Life is hard for most of us and needs inspiration. The best friendship is that which inspires us to do better, to do our best. 

The tiny New Testament was a gift from his Sunday school teacher, signed sincerely in 1937. Her heart-felt words left a wise and enduring message. 

Someone near you could be blessed by your words of good cheer and encouragement. You never know the impact your words might make on a person’s day, on a person’s life. They may bring sweetness to that soul and heal a hurting heart. Maybe your words will even soften a sin-hardened heart and make it ready to receive God’s redeeming grace. Be ready to speak healing words to hurting hearts. 

   Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul and health to the bones. Proverbs 16: 24 KJV

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Fret not: you are not forsaken

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Fret not thyself. Psalm 37:1

 

So begins David’s 37^th Psalm, one of my favorites for encouragement. David forbids the believer to fret over evil-doers and their prosperity.  The state of the godly person (who we hope to be ourselves) is juxtaposed with the short-lived prosperity of the wicked. As we often see, folks who care not a twit for God’s laws flourish and prosper by worldly standards. Rather than be perplexed, don’t fret.

 

Emotional turmoil is suggested by the word fret, one of its meanings being to gnaw away at or devour. Fretting over little matters or significant ones, personal disappointments or wrong-doing in general, wears away at contentment and peace of mind. Even for legitimate cause, fretfulness is not a wise state of mind. David extols us three times not to fret.

 

Instead,

Trust in the Lord, 

delight in Him and his ways, 

commit your way to Him, 

rest in Him, 

wait patiently for Him, and 

cease from anger and wrath. 

 

God is aware of the state of the world and everyone in it. He knows our days (v.18). I’d rather commit my way to Him, take my worries and concerns to Him, do the duty which lies nearest, and trust Him. That’s not always easy. Even devoted Christians fight spiritual battles with self and the world daily. But no day goes by that God doesn’t take account of our petitions and our actions.

 

For the Lord loveth judgment, and forsaketh not his saints. Psalm 37:28.

 

Allow the wise counsel of the psalmist to inform your days and give you peace and courage. There’s no need to fret, child of God. You are not forsaken.

 

 

Some of my family at Plymouth Rock. November 2020

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Hope while the Storm Rages: When No Signposts Light the Way

Sunset on Oahu - May 2018

When neither sun nor stars appeared for many days and the storm continued raging, we finally gave up all hope of being saved. Acts 27:20 NIV

The story of Paul’s voyage to Rome is a prime example of the trials and tribulations on the walk of faith all through the human story. Although it is a common theme in modern Christianity that the pathway of faith is strewn with riches and all good things while God lifts all His faithful followers out of the plane of difficulties, real experience is quite the contrary. Every one of the “great cloud of witnesses” lived lives of alternating trials and triumphs. (See Hebrews 11).

Paul is an example of how much a child of God can suffer without losing hope. Paul boosts of his suffering (See 2 Corinthians 11:22-33 for the list.) Though broken in body, he was never broken in spirit. The account of this particular shipwreck tells of his being tossed upon a stormy sea for days on end. Yet during this time he encouraged the others, even when no common sign posts lit the way. The other seafarers gave up all hope of being saved. Paul knew he couldn’t save himself; his hope was in God.

God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Psalm 46:1 KJV

For people to live in this everyday world in real surroundings with a hundred and one practical conditions which have to be met in practical ways, hope in God lifts us out of the plane of common sense and trials where our faith is perfected and His love and mercy see us through the storms. 

Like Paul, trust God, and many besides yourself will receive deliverance and salvation. 

For everyone born of God overcomes the world. This is the victory that has overcome the world, even our faith. 1 John 5:4 NIV

Sunset on Oahu - May 2018

Jesus Washes His Disciples' Feet: A Lesson of Mutual Love & Esteem

Photo courtesy of Eileen DeCamp ~ Parkstein, Germany

It was just before the Passover Festival. Jesus knew that the hour had come for him to leave this world and go to the Father. . . Jesus knew that the Father had put all things under his power, and that he had come from God and was returning to God. John 13:1a,3 NIV

Jesus knew who He was, fulling comprehending the magnitude of His deity, God’s purposes, and the purpose of His life on earth as the Son of God and Man. I could stop reading at that verse and meditate on it until Christ returns, and still not grasp the fullness of it. 

But there is so much more here in this story of Jesus’ last hours before The Cross.

He was a man with no doubts about Himself. I’ve read entire books about achieving my authentic self. Many of us are taught to aim for self-realization, especially in some disciplines, such as psychology and counseling. The great aim of Jesus’ life was not self-realization, but the realization of 

God’s purposes.

For I am come down from heaven, not to do mine own will, but the will of him that sent me. John 6:38 ASV

I’ve read John 13:1-17 over and over for the past month. I am astounded by our Lord’s great humility and His love. 

Having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end. John 13:1b

Jesus knew who would betray Him. That did not stop our Lord from washing Judas’ feet. He washed Judas’ feet, along with the other disciples’. Jesus loved him, also, even knowing. Knowing how He was loved greatly by the Father, and how the Father so loved the world, He loved generously and bestowed lavishly that great love on others. By His grace, by His mercy, through no merit of their own. 

So he got up from the meal, took off his outer clothing, and wrapped a towel around his waist. After that, he poured water into a basin and began to wash his disciples’ feet, drying them with the towel that was wrapped around him. John 13:4,5

He voluntarily did this menial task, an act of servitude and humility. When he had finished, he asked them if they understood what He had done for them.

Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another’s feet. I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you. Very truly I tell you, no servant is greater than his master, nor is a messenger greater than the one who sent him. Now that you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them. John 13:14-17

This principal is easier to understand than it is to implement in real life action. By His own admission, Jesus gave us an example. Washing the feet was an ordinary daily task for these men. It was a physical act, a drudgery. It was something that needed to be done. If Christ could do this, then who are we to disdain to do even lowly tasks for the good of someone and the glory of God. Jesus gave us a great lesson of mutual love and esteem.

I am reminded of the parable of the good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37) who showed compassion for the stranger who was naked and beaten in the ditch. He bandaged his wounds, took him to an inn, and paid for his care. (I might note that he didn’t just pray for him or hand him a gospel tract.) He endeavored to alleviate his suffering by concrete actions, and, according to Jesus, was a neighbor to the man.

In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death—even death on a cross! Philippians 2:5-8 NIV

Thanks to Eileen DeCamp for her beautiful photography - dogwood tree

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TRUST in GOD'S LOVE

Our little nativity set (Precious Moments)

Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? Romans 8:35

A friend of mine was going through a series of disappointments and setbacks. It seemed one thing after another went wrong in her life. She said to me, “I am questioning God. Why is He letting these things happen to me? Doesn’t He care about me?”

            Her reaction is understandable. In the midst of personal setbacks, tragedies, and hardships, many people blame God for the situation and question His love. Yet, we cannot ascribe the distress and disasters of this fallen world to a lack of God’s love. We live in a time of His permissive will, and the foolishness of man abounds in this sin-sick world. No one is spared misfortune.

But take heart. God’s love has already been proven for God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son (John 3:16). God’s love was revealed through His mercy and grace when He made a way for us as sinners, reconciling man to Himself through Jesus Christ. God also gave the precious gift of the Holy Spirit to be our Comforter. As followers of Christ, we can put our faith in the love of God and hope in the promise of eternal life when we shall live and reign with Him forever. So today, trust in His love and goodness, no matter the circumstances.

Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us. Romans 8:37

When facing difficult circumstances, meditate on how God demonstrated His love to the world and to you personally in countless ways. Remember that your life is in His hands and God’s purposes will be fulfilled.

And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. Romans 8:28

A reminder with my morning cup of coffee

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